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Question of the Week: 89 - 12/15/2002

Bah-Humbug! Are You Offended by Christmas?

Do all of the Christian-based celebrations, songs and religious programming at this time of the year irritate you? Do you, as a Pagan, feel slightly uncomfortable if someone wishes you a 'Merry Christmas'? Do you 'correct' him/her, just let it go (The season is just too short!) or counter with a 'Happy Solstice' or 'Merry Yule' without further explanation?

Or, on the other hand, do you think that PC (political correctness) has run amuck and that the efforts to please everyone -- and to offend no one -- during this time of year has virtually expelled any and/or all spiritual meaning from the season? Is Christmas just another secular/commercial holiday these days?

And finally, what does the Yule season mean to you and how will you celebrate? Will you also join in Christian or Jewish holiday events with family or friends? What do you love about this time of year and what always makes you want to snort, 'Humbug'?

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I Don't Have The Joy Of Saying 'merry Yule' Dec 16th. at 6:45:16 pm UTC

brad (San Diego) Age: 19 - Email


with growing up in a christian home and such some phrases for me get engraved into my mind. im so used to saying 'merry christmas' that it hurts because i know in my heart i've changed. i would be so elated for someone to go through the grocery store and after im done bagging their groceries to hear them say 'merry yule'.
and about the whole buying thing. i try to keep it simple (this is the first year im buying) by only getting presents for the people that i recognized for helping me throughout the year. as for my girlfriend im going to get her a "booby" gift and keep the "witchy" gift in my car (her parents dont know about her being a witch as well as my parents and are against the idea). its all about protection to us
~Kuyan


Nope, I'm A "some Yuletide Cheer Person" Dec 16th. at 7:07:51 pm UTC

Rowan (MD) Age: 14 - Email


Personally,I perfer to say Blessed Yule, and smile sweetly because it's fun. Unfortunately ths jerk behind me in line while I was buying Yule gifts for my friends was very Rude. He came right up got in my face and said, "Merry Christmas!" Very Loudly, I smiled nicely and said "Blessed Yule." He wouldn't let me pass and said "merry Christmas" Louder so I said back "blessed Yule" and he wouldn't let me leave. One of my male friends and a store manager had to get him to leave me alone before he let me pass to leave the store. It was rather disconcerting, but other than that, I enjoy celebrating both religions holidays, Santa Claus has his roots in paganism, from our beloved oak king and his wonderous gifts upon return, alas we mourn the jolly Holly king's passing, but he shall be back soon enough. Both Yule and Christmas are very similar so I don't mind eitheir... However I HATE christmas music, I Hate it... errr it just irks me soo much My school bus has the radio constantly on the christmas music station... which has been playing since November! One of the girls I sit next to in french class has her own pet peeve... people who talk about what they want for christmas in October... Sadly, some holidays are being lost to greed, and afluence... someone needs to show some people the joy of a giftless christmas or a giftless yule (which I've heard from a few grown pagan parents).. but alas I don't think i have much else to say.

Bightest blessings and May The Yule-tide bring you all much cheer,
Rowan


The Season Is What You Make It ! Dec 16th. at 7:20:31 pm UTC

ContraryCrow (Madison,WI.) Age: 33 - Email


Every pagan holiday has a meaning and ways to experience that meaning. How you celebrate Yule depends on how your tradition and you personally perceive this holiday. If you wish to celebrate Yule, then do it and do not worry what others are celebrating. Happy Yule to all!


I'm Not Offended Dec 16th. at 7:43:11 pm UTC

Kat (Va.) Age: 33 - Email


I am not offended by Christmas at all. I have too many good memories with my family celebrating this time of year. I am sort of new to Paganism and Wicca (I have been studing going on 3yrs), so just dropping one religeous holiday for another is not that simple. I enjoy celebrating the holidays but I try to do it with an open mind. Since most of my family, including my husband, are Christians I do plan to celebrate the holidays with them. I do that voluntarily and I because of their views I would not ask them to celebrate Yule with me. With some of them that would start world war three.

Happy Yule


I Love Christmas AND Winter Solstice Dec 16th. at 8:01:48 pm UTC

Connie (Los Angeles) Age: 40 - Email


I grew up Christian and I have many fond childhood memories of the Christmas Holiday. I am no more offended by Christmas than I am by Chanuka, Ramadan,Kwanzaa or any other December/Winter Holiday.

The simple fact is, most of my family and friends are Christian and I enjoy spending the time with them; singing carols, feasting, giving gifts, the whole works.

Christmas/Winter Solstice is about the return of hope to a dark world. What difference does it make which God's birth you are celebrating. As a Jewish friend of mine puts it, "Same bread, different wrapper".

Happy Solstice & Merry Christmas


Merry Christmas, Merry Yule And A Happy New Year Too! Dec 16th. at 10:04:59 pm UTC

Melanie (Hawaii Bound) Age: 24 - Email - Web


I am not offended at all... I was raised Christian and always loved Christmas, in fact other than the symbols and celebrations/beliefs of Jesus, I enjoy most of it! (The decor, the Christmas songs...) :) Link to More info related to this post -- HERE


Go Christmas! Dec 16th. at 10:05:46 pm UTC

Terradon (Portland OR) Age: 28 - Email


One of my covenor's little girls was very worried one day about Christmas and she asked me with very wide eyes if she didn't get to celebrate Christmas anymore because we were pagan.

I smiled, gave her a big hug and told her, "are you Kidding, we get to celebrate Christmas TOO!!"

Any holiday that is about family, love, giving and bringing out the best in people, is all good with me.


The Christmas Yule Tug Of War Dec 16th. at 10:12:29 pm UTC

Fathom (pittsburgh) Age: 24 - Email


Christmas....Yule

I was christian a lot longer than I have been a pagan and I will always have strong ties to christmas. I adjusted, because one, I have to work on christmas eve and day (hotels don't close on holidays) and two, Yule falls on a different date. This might just be an issue of semantics to others but for me it makes it eaiser to function with my religon being one thing and my family another. Christmas, while having a very large dose of religion in it while I lived at home has gradually shifted to more about family time as I got older. Yule is my chance to have a holy and quiet religous holiday, Christmas is my chance to have the rowdy roliking happiness of my family. It's simple and separate and that's just fine. Merry christmas, happy yule and peace to all.


Christmas...Litha Here, Yule There... Dec 16th. at 10:53:50 pm UTC

Laneth Narya (Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) Age: 19 - Email


Merry Meet all
and Happy Litha for the
Southern Hemispherians, Happy Yule for the Northeners...Merry Christmas for all those in between...

Personally, I don't celebrate Christmas for myself - I celebrate it for those that I love knowing that they themselves celebrate it and are not of the same path as I. Tolerance is something I have...

The fact that a whole month to a month-and-a-half the shops and homes are playing Christmas carols and displaying the decorations - this is what irritates me. I mostly wish a Merry Christmas but to those I know as Pagan of some form, it is merry or happy Litha.

I feel that the symbolism of Christmas has been bought and commerciallised and sadly cannot be rescued from the grasp of the greedy money-makers. Christmas rakes in too much money for symbolism now and the novelty of getting a present and sitting down to lunch with family or friends has been lost to a more sinister order of stress and over-spending.

Children now (on a 50/50 ratio-generalisation and at least here in Oz) don't even really know the other side to the Christmas stories. Sure it's Jesus' birthday but it is more importantly the day when ye get tons of stuff to play with.

Growing up as a Roman Catholic I was tought the whole Jesus, Mary, Joseph stuff but that is part of the past for me. Even now, I cannot place where my loyalties will lie when I have children.

I just hope that people can look past the Coca-Cola-invented imagery of Santa Claus and his reindeer and look to the more family oriented side of the holiday. It is about spending time with loved ones after all.

Bright Blessings to all over the Solstice break and Merry Part to Merrily Meet again!

Laneth Narya
Sorcerer, Druid, Witch, Bard, Oracle.


Pagan Cookies For All Dec 17th. at 12:01:16 am UTC

Elvenstar (Yellowknife NWT, Canada) Age: 21 - Email


Every one around me celebrates Christmas (the non-Christian version). Including my Husband and 5 year old step-child. I feel that it is important to spend this time, (whether you celebrate Yule or Chirstmas or Hanika {sp?}) with your family and friends. I plan on doing both the Santa thing and the Yule Ceremony thing with my step-child, and the stocking thing with my mom. (She's loving the grandma stuff, and spoils her when ever she can). So I don't really get upset when someone wishes me a "Merry Christmas". I respond with a "Happy Solstice" or "Merry Yule" and they usualy understand what I am saying: Essential that it doesn't matter what you celebrate, as long as the spirit is there.

Yellowknife is a very open City, if you can call it a City. We have festivals every year to celebrate the summer solstice. So when I brought in gingerbread cookies with purple pentecals on each one to work for my co-workers (a very high profile job I might add) they all enjoyed them for what they were. A gift from me.

The only thing I dislike about this time of Year is that the School my step-chiled goes to (a Roman Catholic School, which is the best school in town, with the most understanding staff in town) tries to make sure she gets more Jesus talk then you can shake a wand at. It's annoying, but I don't think that they are doing it to spite me. They do it to all of the children. It leaves her very confused, and both her father and I frustrated, as he is not Christian either.

Blessed Be and Merry Solstice,
Elvenstar


I Celebrate Both- It's Like Getting Two Desserts! Dec 17th. at 12:12:25 am UTC

Amanita Burning Sky (Halifax) Age: 23 - Email


I remember reading the thoughts of a Dutch immagrant to Canada..she said that although she was a new Canadian,
She still was teaching her children Dutch as well as English, and that they celebrated the Dutch holidays as well
as the Canadian ones. As she said, "It's like getting to have two desserts". Her thoughts pretty well sum up how I feel
about Christmas. I am wiccan, but the rest of my family is christian..especially my grandmother, who I am very much in the broomcloset to.
And it has always been my understanding that in the craft, all posotive forms of celebration are welcome.
As for the christmas music, I wish that the stores would wait until december to play the stuff, and then, could they pick out some nice renditions
of the songs, as opposed to off key kids singing, or muzak soundalikes? Although I must confess, I have been known to play a favorite christmas song or two, even in the summer..Oh well.
Happy Yule, everyone!


Oh Yulemaskuh Tree... Dec 17th. at 12:55:38 am UTC

Cole (texas) Age: 28 - Email


For me "christmas" is just a tag. My parents are chistian, and its become a generic term to say "Merry Christmas". I tell my jewish friends "Happy Hanukah". I do get tired of having the whole my gods kid was born today shoved down my throat, but I can live with it.

I am tired of the PC thing, I think that instead of pleasing everyone we should let everyone believe what they want and leave them alone.

Thats why for the low low price of NOTHING you can follow an all new celebratory holiday extravaganza! Yulemaskuh, the holiday everyone can celebrate. Give gifts, spend time with you familly, love one another, feast & enjoy life.


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