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Question of the Week: 40 - 5/7/2001

What is Your Guilty Little Secret?

Fess Up! What are you hiding? Do you watch 'Survivor'? Do you even watch reruns of the ORIGINAL 'Survivor'? Still have your Barbie dolls-and still change their outfits once in a while? Collect stamps? Think David Cassidy of The Partridge Family is still the babe of the century? Tell everyone that you 'never really watch television', but you're really clocking in some impressive miles with the remote control every week? Hate Celtic music (gasp!) Have a crush on someone? Don't recycle your plastics? This is your chance to come clean and tell all.

(In the interest of fair disclosure: Fritz has the DNA of a sugar ant. He has to have his bowl of ice cream with a chocolate chip cookie chaser every night and he only eats a vegetable about three times a year-and then only if it can be dipped in melted butter. Wren liked Duran Duran before it was cool to like Duran Duran. Of course, it has NEVER been cool to like Duran Duran, so this is a really brave confession on her part. There goes another carefully crafted reputation down the sacred well....)

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I Take My Parents Lighters To Light My Candles And Incense, But... May 9th. at 9:16:13 pm UTC

Nikki McGoff (Boston, Massachusetts US) Age: 13


I take my parents lighters to light my candles and incense, but only ones they aren't using. I also have to hide the smell of incense and the candle flame all the time if they're home.


1). There Is Nothing Wrong With Liking Duran Duran. Quality Music Is... May 9th. at 9:59:38 pm UTC

Aurora (Douglas, Massachusetts US) Age: 18


1). There is nothing wrong with liking Duran Duran. Quality music is hard to come by.
2). Spiders scare me, and I have nightmares about them. Also along the sleep line, I sleep with a teddybear that I recieved when I was 10.
3). Road Rage is a normal occurance. If I'm not speeding, check my pulse.
4). I'm a band geek, and proud of it!
5). I too love Voyager and any other Trek Kind of thing. In fact, I'm watching it now! augh, Nelix is leaving!
6). I cry sooo easily, even at dumb tv comericals!


Im Very Vengeful But Appear To Be Carefree, People Think Im Sweet... May 10th. at 12:55:34 am UTC

Star (Holtwood, Pennsylvania US) Age: 23 - Email


im very vengeful but appear to be carefree, people think im sweet and really im very intolerable and bitchy, i dont like people that much, but go out of my way to make them happy.. go figgure.. then i hate my self for doing it.. im in love with my vibrator.. to bad men arnt equiped that way <> im short tempered and swear alot when i get mad.. of course anyone who knows me, sees my love of the term GOD DAMNIT!!! or SON OF A BITCH!! it just feels good to type it. feels even better to scream it at someone who gets on my nerves. I dont really care for porno movies unless it has a plot or a really good woman on woman scene. I like woman but they scare me at the same time. my husband drives me stark raving mad and i still love him and i hate him for that. fell inlove on line once and promised my self id never do it again.... what the hell am i doing now!!!! oh and im taking a course in medical transcription and i hate doctors with the passion.. so what do i do.. i choose to work for them... i make no sence. being alone scares me and the one i hide the most.. when i turned 11 my mother got me a mug with a teddy in it.. the mug was about scorpios.. said a lot of stuff blah blah blah cutting up on scorpios ( i am one by the way and proud) and the very final thing on the list was... #11 scorpios are most likely to be murdered. WHAT A NICE GIFT needless to say my mom picked it up with out ever reading it ( i wanted to keep it but she returned it to the store) and that #11 still has me paranoid to this day.. i dont even like the number 11 avoid it at all costs.. even hubby dont know this one. ok thats enough


I Finally Decided To Post After Reading About 40 Other People's Posts... May 10th. at 8:27:10 am UTC

goldŰfloor (Eastern, Kentucky US) Age: 32 - Email


I finally decided to post after reading about 40 other people's posts......So have you guessed that I'm a coward? LOL Anyhoo I nodded others' comments on spiders, deep water, Steel Magnolias **SOB**, lusting after those whom I should not **SLATHER**, of course I never mention it to the lustee..... did I mention I'm a coward? I will eat all of the ice cream unless someone fights me for it, expect bloodshed. I love eggs and eat them everyday.

I used to have a crush on Mickey Dolens. Ok fine! I still have a crush on him and if I weren't a coward I'd get a tattoo of a heart with his name on it on my nether regions. I'm addicted to NeoPets after one month. I have a real problem showing my feelings towards others unless it's negative or just plain evil heh heh. Procrastination really is my middle name.

There are approximately 124, 423.75 unfinished projects lying around my house and other places too. I'm no good at laughing at jokes if I don't get it just to be polite. I have weird sense of humor that people often take as lying! I've never understood that but its true. There are people who think I am to be avoided at any cost Woo Hoo!! less hassle for me. But I do feel sad sometimes cuz it's my own fault I have few friends, but my humor spares no one, its unstoppable. Makes my apologies much less sincere unfortunately. But I find that funny too so I guess there's just no cure.

I have a habit of forming two feelings or opinions (usually conflicting) about things. Which seems normal to me but other people find it disconcerting (and probably wonder if I'm lying again LMAO!). But hey I really can understand why people wear fur even though I despise the fact that they do. Oh how I hate Alvin and the Chipmunks. There I finally said it. :0P Don't tell anyone ok?

If someone asks me point blank if I'm christian I say yes. Hey I figure it's survival of the fittest. Besides my definition of a christian is much different than the person who asks me. However if they start that 'washed in the blood' bit I stop them and say that I don't accept that part because it is too close to cannabilism. Then they run away screaming and again I have lost a friend.....*sigh*


Okay, Here Goes.........i Was In Love With The Bay City Roller... May 10th. at 10:54:57 am UTC

Soloswan (Malvern, Arkansas US) Age: 37 - Email


Okay, Here goes.........I was in love with the Bay City Roller. I had all their albums, even the import albums!! I had my walls plastered with the picutres for 16 magazine.


Secrets? Oh, I've Got Lots Of Those. It Must Be An Aquarian... May 10th. at 1:31:11 pm UTC

LoneCat (Somewhere, Texas US) Age: 20 - Email


Secrets? Oh, I've got lots of those. It must be an Aquarian thing, but I really just don't understand people, and they don't understand me either. I really think someone up there made some sort of mistake and I wasn't meant to be a human being. I am much more comfortable with animals than I am with people.

I talk to animals and plants like they were people, and if I don't have any around I talk to myself. I talk to myself whenever I'm alone, which is a lot of the time.

It's no secret that I like the Beatles, but few know the extent of it. I used to practically worship them as gods, and now I still do a special ritual to honor John Lennon every Dec. 8, who is my idol. I like music from the 60s and 70s much more than anything new, although a good song comes along every now and then. I could probably win at Rock and Roll Jeopardy, as long as they don't ask too many questions about new stuff or hip-hop.

My mom never weaned me off baby bottles, so I still drank a bottle of warm milk every night before I went to sleep until I was 8, when I kicked the habit myself.

I don't smoke or do any other drugs except 4-Way Fast-Acting Nasal Spray. I've tried to give it up many times, but whenever I get a cold I go right back to it. I wonder what the long-term effects of it are.

I'm totally into organic gardening. I don't care about flowers, only herbs, fruits, and vegetables. If I ever get a second career after I become a wildlife biologist (which I'm studying to do), I'd be an organic farmer.

I can't take horror movies. Even cheesy ones keep me up at night, and the X-files are way too scary for me too. I avoid scary movies and shows as much as i can.

The Lion King made me cry. A lot. That was a great movie.

On a darker note, I was planning on committing suicide my senior year during Christmas break, but I chickened out, not because I wanted to live, but because I was afraid of death. My high school counselor thinks I suffer from chronic depression, and referred me to a shrink, but I have never called. I keep putting it off and making up excuses not to call.

In high school my best friend was a 30-something year old guy I met on a Beatles newsgroup on the internet. It wasn't sexual in any way, more like a brother-sister relationship, but I don't tell anybody because I know what they would think about it.

I lost my virginity when I was 19 to my first boyfriend (after I had been dating him for 7 months). I later got pregnant by him and had to have an abortion. Somehow, I'm still with him after a year and a half. I'm still uptight about sex, and never masturbate. Nobody believes me if I tell them that, but I just don't like it.

Oh yeah, one more secret. I'm a pagan. A few people know I'm interested in it, but nobody knows I actually practice at night in the privacy of my room. Shh, don't tell anybody.


My Little Secret Ocnfession...by The Goddess Heres So Many, Buit Well... May 10th. at 1:54:58 pm UTC

rob (chicopee, Massachusetts US) Age: 21 - Email


my little secret ocnfession...by the goddess heres so many, buit well i for a time liked the spice girls...dont ask why i really dont know and also a lot of those older shows (newhart, wings, the glodne girls) i still like to watch them despite protesting from my lover chris. Okay now let the firey stone rain apon me lol. ^_^


Hmm...my Guilt Pleasure.... I Would Have To Say My Guilt Pleasure... May 10th. at 10:40:55 pm UTC

delstar (houston, Texas US) Age: 20 - Email


Hmm...my guilt pleasure....

I would have to say my guilt pleasure is watching 7th Heaven. Normally, that wouldn't be wierd, but considering that i'm a 20 year old male whose style is somewhere between grunge and gothic, it kind of scares some of my friends :-)


My Guilty Little Secret? Well, Umm....ok, I'll Tell. But Remember- You... May 10th. at 10:48:48 pm UTC

Cary "Sketch" Vandever (Long Beach, California US) Age: 19 - Email


My guilty little secret? Well, umm....ok, I'll tell. But remember- you asked for it! ;) I'm an artist (art is my life) so over the years I've built up quite a collection of supplies. You know those little gray art gum erasers that are kinda moldable like clay? Well, I sometimes get a thrill out of sculpting "questionable" little sculptures and then waiting to see how long it takes for people to see them and giggle and blush or gasp and scold. It usually takes a few minutes, and then someone will lean over my desk and ask, "Hey, Sketch- what did you make this time?" When they see my new masterpeice, the look on their face is priceless- well worth the scolding. :)


Heeey, Dis Not The Duran Duran ... Honestly, I Feel Like My "guilty... May 11th. at 1:18:49 am UTC

Dream (Grand Rapids, Michigan US) Age: 30 - Email


Heeey, dis not the Duran Duran ...

Honestly, I feel like my "guilty little secret", at least musically, is enjoying a couple songs by Kid Rock. Misogynist little turd that he is, I feel he is one of the few mainstream accepted performers to actually speak his mind.


Oh Dear. I'm Sure I Have Many Lying About The House. I... May 11th. at 6:33:52 am UTC

Ivy Dockal (Laramie, Wyoming US) Age: 208 - Email


Oh dear. I'm sure I have many lying about the house. I can think of two right now that's weighing heavily on me. One is I'm a terrible procrastinator (and coupled with my bad luck it gets worse!). I had a paper due two weeks ago and was printing it (after I wrote it at the last minute) and my computer crashed. Got an extension and I've been going so nuts with other exams and starting a new job that i never did it...it's due in a few hours...I just spent half an hour (see how bad i am?) calculating the lowest grade I can take on the final exam while not turning in my paper so I can still pass the class.

It doesn't help that the class is completely ridiculous and does nothing for my major. besides...i'm sure my A will balance an F out...

Another one is I think I knew Bono (U2) in a previous life. Every times he comes on VH1 Classic (another secret...I spend hours watching VH1 Classic's continuous music vids form the 60's-80's) I just stare at the screen in rapt attention. I love U2, but I'd never actually seen what the members looked like until a month ago. Must have been a previous life. Only other explanations are he looks exactly like someone I know that I've either forgotten or have blocked, or I actually know him but have forgotten it because it's so improbable.

Oh yeah...I love disco.

And Duran Duran. What? You mean it's not cool to like them? Since when? I challenge that!


1. Spiders. Saw One About Two Hours Ago (it Dropped Down From... May 11th. at 7:29:43 am UTC

MW (Cleveland, Ohio US) Age: 16


1. Spiders. Saw one about two hours ago (it dropped down from the ceiling), I ran into another room, saw a moth, thought it was another spider, and started screaming. (Didn't wake anyone, thankfully.)
2. I hate to say it.......but.......fish. Like BIG fish. As in fish that are anywhere near the same size as me, or bigger. I went to the zoo once, saw this freaking HUGE fish, and ran out. It gave me nightmares (And for this I shall remain anonymous. It's embarressing. :))


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