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What Are Your Views on Abortion, Euthanasia and Suicide?
What are your personal views on the issue of abortion, euthanasia and suicide? Do you consider these as individual and personal decisions or are they moral, religious or ethical 'crimes'? Does society-or the majority view (religious or otherwise) have the right to 'regulate' such actions or does the individual have the personal 'right' to decide whether to have an abortion or take their own life through euthanasia r suicide? CAUTION: These topics are very emotionally charged ones. Please do not attack or respond directly to another's posting, but rather simply state your own opinion on the matter. Anyone who wishes to debate the topics further via email with others can state so in his/her posting. Postings directly attacking another individual will be removed.
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| I Believe That All Three Of These Topics Fall Into The Gray... ||Mar 30th. at 11:25:37 am EST|
|A face in the crowd (Reading, Pennsylvania US) ||Age: 31 - Email |
I believe that all three of these topics fall into the gray area. There is no clear right or wrong answer. I do not believe that abortion is a good choice. But yet I had one when I was a very young teenager. Having a child at that point in my life would have ruined my life and affected many other lives. Now that I have two beautiful children I wonder how I possibly could have done it. But on the other hand I wouldn't have my husband and children if I would have been a mother at 14. Did I do the right thing? I'll always believe that I did, but I will always regret it as well.
Suicide is not something I can understand. I have endured abortion and the death of my father and grandfather all before I was 15. Yet I never seriously thought about killing myself. As painfull as any situation may be, life goes on. Some of the hardest lessons in life are painful, but I believe they are some of the most important ones as well. And the biggest lesson of all is that there is always hope.
Ethanasia is something I strongly support. I can see no purpose to prolonging human suffering when there is no hope of recovery. When your body becomes a prison it is time to set yourself free.
I believe that all three of these topics should be the choice of the individual. What is right for one may not be right for another.
Blessings to all.
| As A Teacher Of The Craft, That Stresses That Self Responsablity Is... ||Mar 30th. at 6:29:35 am EST|
|Kundra (Rebecker Mackness (Perth, Western Australia AU) ||Age: 29 - Email |
As a teacher of the craft, that stresses that Self responsablity is a major guide line to follow, I believe that all of the above is a Personal choice, but with one condition... the person must be of a healthy mind state when making the decision (by this i mean they are not suffering deep depression etc). I have personally experienced the wanting to end my life and counselling others durring their time of choice. How can we expect people to take responsabilty for their every day actions if we try to take way the most basic right to choose what they do with their bodies. Just my 2 cents worth.
| Having Been In The Shoes Of Two Of The Above Topics, I... ||Mar 29th. at 11:08:39 pm EST|
|Someone (Charlotte, North Carolina US) ||Age: 17 |
Having been in the shoes of two of the above topics, I feel compelled to respond. As a young teenager and even today, I dealt with depression. I thought very seriously about whether I wanted to end my life or not. It seemed like the way to make it easier on everyone at the time. When the clock struck midnight on my fifteenth birthday, I was in the emergency room of the hostpital because I attempted to kill myself through overdose of Tylenol. I told everyone that I simply wanted to get rid of a migraine that wouldn't go away but now I wish I had told them the truth and gotten the help I needed. I now value my life more than that and know that suicide isn't the way out for me. I found things in my life that are worth living for and found that I actually had a future. I can understand why some people would want to do that and I don't think really that we have a right to judge people. Afterall, it's your life, why should someone else decide for you what to do with it or not? It's not like you're killing someone else against their wishes.
As per abortion, the other topic I wish to address... I have had another personal experience with this one. I was in a serious relationship (which I am still in) and we were fairly active. But, as I was in my late teens and not out on my own yet, I had no idea that you could get birth control (other than condoms) without your parent's permission in my state. They don't exactly tell you those things when their goal is to keep you from having sex. I wish teenagers were taught about Planned Parenthood. What a wonderful organization! But anyway, the same month that we were looking into Planned Parenthood, we found out that we were pregnant. We both recognized that this would be a terrible thing to come to pass- we couldn't support a child. We wouldn't even be able to devote ourselves to it and provide it with all the love it needed, either. He is agnostic and I am now an atheist. We didn't believe that it was a child yet until it at least had brain waves and a heart beat.
The thing, though, is not whether or not it really technically is a child or not. It's that no one can really say when it is a human being, no one can say with any certainty that they know when the child has a soul or what have you. If you want to say that you're killing human potential, consider if you will birth control. All those eggs and all that sperm gets killed as a result of birth control and will never be a child. Besides, do you want a child to grow up in a dysfunctional family where it is constantly in need? Adoption, in my opinion, is a psychologically damaging thing, as is growing up in a broken home. There is no other option.
I talked to another woman while I was there in the clinic. She was in her late thirties and this would be her fourth pregnancy. She had three sons, one my age. Recently she had been separated from her husband and could barely support herself and her three children. Her decision was based on the fact that she could not allow more in her life, as much as she loved children. She felt the generation gap too large and the medical risk too high. It is not just teenagers that have to make this decision, but older women as well. I had forgotten them.
Another argument people have presented is that you shouldn't be having sex if you can't support a child. If this were true, many would remain virgins until their late twenties. It's a terrible thing to deny people such a wonderful thing because of a tiny percentage. Birth control itself is not 100% effective. The Depo Provera shot and the Pill both have below 2-1% failure rates. It's still possible for it to happen whether you like it or not. You shouldn't have to hamper your lifestyle because there's a possibility that you'd be the one in a thousand women.
For the record, the ultrasound before the abortion did not show a heart beat or brainwaves. Those generally are not strong and apparent until the second trimester when abortions begin to be performed only when it endangers the mother's life.
| My Opinion Deals Strictly With Abortion, Mainly Because I Recently Had One... ||Mar 29th. at 10:59:06 pm EST|
|Arabian Wind (Grosse Ile, Michigan US) ||Age: 16 - Email |
My opinion deals strictly with abortion, mainly because I recently had one. I do believe that it's the individual's right to choose, and that early term abortions (12 weeks or younger) should not be restricted by the government. However, the two-day "waiting period" rule should be more strictly enforced, because in most cases, it isn't, and decisions are made in haste or panic that are later regretted. Also, I personally have a problem with later term abortion. After 12 weeks, the fetus has essentially a fully functional nervous system. That, to me, constitutes life, and I believe that taking a life is wrong. Before 12 weeks though, there is no life, only the potential for life. So up until 12 weeks, society should have no say, other than "Wait a few days and make sure this is what you really want". After that, unless there is a serious medical concern, I don't think abortion should be allowed. 12 weeks, the line between life and it's potential, is where the line should be drawn.
| I Believe Very Strongly In Abortion And Euthenasia Very Strongly. There Is... ||Mar 29th. at 10:08:14 pm EST|
|Willow Aurora (Chicago, Illinois US) ||Age: 16 |
I believe very strongly in abortion and euthenasia very strongly. There is no shame or "wrongness" about taking one's own life- after all, if we do not own our deaths, we don't really own our lives either. If a person is in irreversible pain, then there is no reason whatsoever to force them to live. Do we as a people condone torture? When life becomes torture, therefore, it is merciful and beautiful to end it. This societal fear of death is really the driving force behind all the anti-euthenasia... if we could only realize how beautiful all the pieces of life are, including death, this would not be such an issue. As for abortion, I think that it is far better for the life of the child as well as the mother. Many people who have abortions cannot support a child- the baby would grow up impoverished, be a strain on the community, quite possibly resort to drugs and criminal activity, or even be subjected to an abusive household. What really bothers me about pro-lifers, however, is this: I do understand the point of view. I see where they are coming from, and I applaud their resolve in their beliefs. However, it is under no circumstances morally right to take rights away from another person. A person may feel it is wrong to have an abortion; fine. She shouldn't have an abortion. However, it is imperative for her to respect the beliefs of others who wish to have abortions, and not try to deny them this right.
It really comes down to this; living is not existing. Nobody should have existance forced upon them when they can no longer really live. It is our choice, our basic right, as individual human beings, to control that. No societal law can regulate these highly personal situations.
| Abortion.... I Believe That Life Begins At Conception, But I Also Understand... ||Mar 29th. at 7:32:55 pm EST|
|Ember (Salisbury, Maryland US) ||Age: 23 - Email |
I believe that life begins at conception, but I also understand that this is my BELIEF not a fact, therefore I am Pro-Choice. I feel that all pregnacies should be wanted, and that with our modern birth control choices, abortion shouldn't be as much as an issue as it is, unfortunatly those apposed to abortion are often opposed to birth control as well... This is just plain idiotic to me! I feel that Parnent-hood is a serious decision and if you don't want to ever be a parent, please take the necessary steps not to become one because
A) Children need dedicated parents
B) we are very over populated as it is....
We put our sick animals to sleep when we can't cure them, why can't we chose to put our selves to sleep when we are terminaly ill? Both my Grandfather and Grandmother died of cancer, and I wish they had the OPTION to think about Euthanasia instead of the pain and suffering they endured, not to mention the difficult job my mother and stepfather had in caring for Mom mom and Grandpa. It was very hard on them to see their mom and dad suffer.
Over all, I feel that suicide is a personal choice, though a stupid one. We have challenges and lessons to learn in this life, and we don't escape that by commiting suicide. We will have the same issues in the next life. It also causes alot of pain and suffering for the family and even the comunity at large, as demonstrated as Tempest's death. I have many friends who were once suicidal and they either got profesional help or had close family and friends who steped in. Then there was my friend Terese. She was Bi-polar and we didn't even know it until her death. She shot herself, but before she did, she called my mother very late at night asking her if she knew how to unload a gun. My mom told her to call the police for help because she didn't know. If we had known she was bi-polar we would have had a much differnt responce and maybe she would be alive today. IF you have problems, Please tell someone! Your family loves you, the Goddess loves you, and heck I love you!
| We Simply Do Not Know When Physical Life Truly Begins, Or When... ||Mar 29th. at 7:09:17 pm EST|
|Ivy Greenwood (Simi Valley, California US) ||Age: 44 - Email |
We simply do not know when physical life truly begins, or when it truly ends, and it is this lack of certain knowledge which makes discussion of these subjects so uncomfortable. Is fertilization the instant onset of life? Does death truly occur the second that brain activity ceases? We may claim that we know, but no one---not the doctor, not the priestess, not the minister, not the protester on either side of the line---really knows for sure. These issues deal directly with human mortality and our perceptions thereof--- perceptions which are as endlessly varied and intensely personal as our individual perceptions of Deity. All we truly have in dealing with these subjects are our individual beliefs, our individual feelings, and, if we are wise, the knowledge that no one else in the entire world feels or believes the EXACT same thing that we do.
I am glad, personally, that I have never had to seriously consider having an abortion. I have some background in biology---I know that, even if what is aborted is not technically alive, it is potentially human and has the potential to be alive at some point. For this reason, it is not a choice I would ever want to have to make. But there are circumstances under which I would be first in line when the clinic doors open. No woman should be forced to bear a child she does not want or cannot safely carry.
I believe euthanasia is an option for someone who is terminally injured or ill. I see no sense in trying to keep an empty husk animated---that is utterly indecent. There comes a time in the progress of terminal disease, in particular, when letting a sufferer pass on is an act of love and mercy. I know that for myself, I do not want to be dragged back into a crippled, pain-racked body when I am trying to escape it. If I am at the point where I am too debilitated to leave on my own, I would really appreciate someone else helping me make that escape.
I have very mixed feelings about suicide, having dealt with depression for many years and having contemplated suicide on a few occasions. When I am not depressed, it is something I would never consider. When I AM depressed, I KNOW I am depressed (these days I do, anyway) and I know where the suicidal thoughts are coming from. I cannot say that, for myself, it would be right to commit suicide, because I know it is not what I would normally want to do IF I WERE NOT IN A DEPRESSION CYCLE. On the other hand, if I were terminally ill, I would want the right to choose when my life should end. Then no one would be responsible for my death but I, myself.
These are my beliefs, my feelings. I am aware that some of them may seem perhaps a little illogical to others, but feelings tend to be that way. As I've said, none of us know the real answers to these issues. Our feelings---and respect for the feelings and beliefs of others---are really all we have to
| In General, I Consider Abortion And Euthanasia To Be Morally Repugnant. In... ||Mar 29th. at 1:09:04 pm EST|
|Richard Gant (Northern Kentucky University, Kentucky US) ||Age: 29 - Email |
In general, I consider abortion and euthanasia to be morally repugnant. In too many cases, it seems that they are used as options by individuals who do not wish to be "inconvenienced". (Please note that I used "many", not "most" or "all"; I am aware that there are exceptions to everything.) There are certainly circumstances (in my opinion) in which abortion or euthanasia could be considered legitimate options (for instance, if it is necessary to save the mother's life or when there is no hope of recovery), but even then the decision should not be made lightly.Suicide is, to my mind, an extreme symptom of a greater problem. As with euthanasia, there may be times when it is acceptable, but it not a step that should be taken lightly.The question of society's right to regulate euthanasia, suicide, and abortion is interesting. Although personal liberty is important (particularly to Americans, where "personal liberty" is an ideal guarded with fanatical zeal), government (of any type) has always reserved the right to restrict or even eliminate particular freedoms. With this in mind, I would say that the government (which, in the United States, is more or less directed by society) does indeed have the legal right to regulate abortion, suicide, euthanasia, murder, skipping, or anything else. Whether or not it has the will and the *moral* right to do so is another matter, and will only be decided by the voice of the people.
| I Have Always Been Pro-choice On These Issues. I Feel That No... ||Mar 29th. at 12:55:45 am EST|
|Big John (South Amboy, New Jersey US) ||Age: 40 |
I have always been pro-choice on these issues. I feel that no organization, whether a religious group or a government agency, should dictate to an individual what happens to their body. At the risk of getting wordy, I'd like to expand on my view of these issues:
Euthanasia - About 4 years ago my late mother's dog was at the end of her life. She was at least 17 years old (perhaps older)and could barely walk. She couldn't climb stairs, walk on a leash, or even stand up to eat without help. I took her to the vet and stayed with her to the end. It broke my heart as she was my close friend and I still miss her, but the truth is nothing that I could have done would ever have made her healthy again. I could not have prolonged her life - only her death. I have always valued life, but for each of us, who lives long enough, there comes a point where our health degrades so much that there will never be any joy in the life that remains. When this happens I feel that euthanasia is by far the kindest action and the greatest gift that one can be given.
Abortion - I don't think that abortion should be a substitute for birth control. On the other hand, birth control is never 100% reliable and unwanted pregnancies happen from time to time. I'd rather see a woman choose to have an abortion then to bring an unwanted child into the world. Again, I value life, but the quality of that life is also important. What kind of life does a child have when they are considered an obligation to their parents rather than a gift? A mother's decision on whether or not to have an abortion should be a hard choice, but is should always remain a personal choice.
Suicide - I have never understood why suicide is considered a crime. Even if it should be how can society ever expect to enforce it? Fortunately, I've never really considered suicide myself, but I can understand it under certain extreme circumstances. Perhaps, if I were in a situation were I'd lost all of the joy in life and I knew the situation would not ever change I'd consider it an option. Sadly, I believe many people take this path even when their life will improve in the future. Also, our lives touch other lives. So, whenever someone chooses this path, whatever the reason, all those around him or her are harmed as well.
A life lost in this way is always a sad thing and it is all too common. But, you can't prevent suicide by legislation. I don't have a simple solution, but there certainly is a problem when so many teenagers are hurting so much that they choose this path. Perhaps it would help if we all focused on what is truely of value. Family, health, the natural world around us are all important. Money, status, grades, and someone's image of what we should be are all superficial, and are never worth dying for.
| Coming From A Personal And Nursing Perspective On Abortion And Euthanasia I... ||Mar 28th. at 10:27:16 pm EST|
|Autumn Moon (Portland, Oregon US) ||Age: 27 |
Coming from a personal and nursing perspective on abortion and euthanasia I feel these are up to the individual. I don't think I would ever choose these options but who is to say unless you are in a particular situation. I am strongly pro choice and have been since my high school days and yes I was raised Christian (Disciples of Christ) and somehow that hasn't affected my opinion. Women should be able to make up their own mind since it is their body. I would not want someone else making the decision for me. How would you like it if someone decided for you that because you have cancer you should be isolated from everyone and be forced to die alone? That just doesn't make any sense. Many people don't ask to get cancer just as they didn't ask to get pregnant. Of course I don't believe abortion should be used as a form of birth control but they are many reasons women have to make the difficult decision of having an abortion.
As for euthanasia, as a nurse that works with extremely ill patients, I have seen many people wish themselves dead after hearing a terminal diagnosis. I have also seen those people try to hold on no matter how painful. It's an individual decision. If it is your time then why not go pain free and have that choice. It should be an option like what is offered here in Oregon with the Right to Die With Dignity Act. A lot of counseling, understanding, and talking with both doctors and family must be done before decisions are made. Most people really don't want to die. What about that 1% that does? Who advocates for them? Often times I will talk to my patients when I know their time is near and tell them it is okay for them to go, they don't need to hold on if they don't want to. I treat them with as much care and respect as any of my other patients. It really is a personal choice.
Suicide is an option that is for the individual. Although I think there are other ways to cope and people to contact for help, many people feel they must kill themselves. If you decide to kill yourself for whatever reason, I don't believe that gives you the right to make it public, drag other people into it, or threaten other people with it. It is your struggle and your cross to bear. Nothing should be that bad to commit suicide over. Help is out there if you look for it, don't expect it to find you.
| I Personally Stand For The Above Mentioned... Under Certain Circumstances. I Really... ||Mar 28th. at 7:34:09 pm EST|
|9;2;2 (If this posts twice, then I got an error message) (Derby, Kansas US) ||Age: 16 - Email |
I personally stand for the above mentioned... under certain circumstances. I really do not stand for suicide. There is ALWAYS a way around things. You either tie up the knots, solve your problems, or start a new leaf. Sometimes you'll just have to put up with problems, and if you're very sensitive or unstable, then get others to bolster your confidence, read stories, watch movies - they have morals to tell.
I stand for abortion before the third trimester. People preach about parents killing their children, and somehow link those horrors to abortion. Hogwash! There are people who do not use protection, and when they become pregnant, they lack the finances, mentality, and healthy environment to raise a child in. "But that doesn't matter, because if they had an abortion, they'd be murderers!" Okay, then. Raise a child, as a single parent, in a small, 1-bedroom apartment. The guy that saddled you with the cild runs off, and when you ask for help, he brushes you away. Your job is minimal pay, yet you work for 12 hours. You don't own expensive things, but on top of bills (electric, car, medical), insurance, food, renting, clothing, diapers, taxes, schooling, debts (up to your neck), one really doesn't have the TIME to spend time with the baby. Oh, and add babysitting fees to that list. With the time you spend at work to make just enough money to barely get by, you aren't going to leave the kid at home all alone. Mom and dad won't help; they've enough problems of their own.
If one takes this route, at least the kid lives. Then the kid grows into a teen, and will start hating the neglecting parent, and get into all sorts of trouble. Stereotypical teen, one that's uncontrolled by the parent(s). Money is not easy to come by, folks. In the unfortunately all-too-common example mentioned above, if you dodge abortion because it's "murder", then with the highly unstable environment the child grows in, you're responsible for releasing another murderer into the world. Really, now: you're not there to discipline the kid, you're busy raising hardly enough money to feed the kid (minues yourself).
If you lack the financial stability, maturity, and mentality to have children, either avoid sex, use protection, or get an abortion. Are you going to put the child through that kind of lifestyle because of others' short-sighted screaming and crying? Technically, an unborn child CANNOT feel pain - most of the time, they are unconcious, or have not yet developed a nervous system. C'mon, folks - people who have abortions don't do it on a whim (at least, the more sane ones). They have abortions because they cannot HANDLE the responsibility, or they aren't ready. If abortion is halted, just think of the sharp skyrocketing of birth rates! Think of how crowded schools will be, how hard it will be to find a job, how empty grocery stores will be in the future! There are many teen moms who have had illusions of wanting a baby, and how perfect they'll be as a parent. Those who want to be parents had better have the resources (money, friends, counseling, WRITTEN PLANS for care) and mentality for taking care of a child. Newborn babies now cost $1, 000+ per MONTH to care for. It's not all flowers, rainbows, and peaches. Get ready to lose a huge portion of your freedom if you decide to have a child. In situations like these, emotion is an enemy, and logic is the ruler.
As for euthanasia... if someone is lying in bed from an incurable, tormenting disease, you're just going to let them lay there and suffer, won't you? The patient would have to be going through really intense, non-reversible suffering to get euthanasia. I'm all talked out, so I'll shut up now. :)
| A Woman's Decision To Continue Or Terminate A Pregnancy Is A Personal... ||Mar 28th. at 7:09:55 pm EST|
|Ceara (Atlanta, Georgia US) ||Age: 39 |
A woman's decision to continue or terminate a pregnancy is a personal one and should not be either approved or restricted by any other person, group, political cause etc. It is an intensely personal matter and who else can poosibly know or understand all of the issues which may enter into that woman's decision? Not to mention the issues of personal privacy rights and individual freedoms.
Euthanasia? Well I can certainly understand why someone with a terminal illness or severe disability of some sort would want to end their current life. Again I think that ultimately this is a personal matter and falls under the same privacy rights mentioned earlier. This, of course, assumes that the person involved is mentally capable of making the decision, is not under duress of any kind, or has expressed their wishes in case of debility in something like a living will.
Suicide I think is tragic and ultimately will affect the future incarnations of the person involved. Whatever the root cause that drives them to suicide is not going away and they will likely face it again - in another life. Life is hard sometimes and excrutiatingly painful - maybe we all need to do more to reach out to those who need our help so they can resolve the ROOT issue and move past it.
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