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Posted: Nov. 17, 2002
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Misconceptions About Witches, Wiccans and Pagans
The Misconceptions About Witches, Wiccans and Pagans still exist despite decades of educational and outreach work. What are the common misconceptions that you still encounter in books, on the net or in the media about Witches, Wiccans and Pagans? Have they changed over the years? What can we do about those religious zealots who out-and-out lie about our practices and beliefs? How do YOU respond to some of the ridiculous 'myths' that you might see or hear about modern Witchcraft and/or Pagan beliefs?
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| Ya Know, It's Funny. I Thought All The Crap About People Thinking... ||Sep 25th. at 11:52:44 am EDT|
|Joshua Gadbois (Baltimore, Maryland US) ||Age: 26 - Email |
Ya know, it's funny. I thought all the crap about people thinking witches and pagans worshipped satan was reactivist hoopla left over from the dark period of the fifties, sixties, and seventies. Being 26, I grew up in the eighties and nineties in an urban metropolis where we were encouraged to diversify our belief systems, and I was convinced the "burning times" were over, and those who continued to find xtian and secular persecution were manifesting it themselves out of some inner need to be persecuted.
Here I am now, in my first "real" job. I'm making more money than Hades at this point, and am really doing less labor than ever before. It's full bennies, stock options and over 50k a year. Woo-hoo! (BTW, this position manifested as a direct result of focused magickal workings. Not a prosperity spell, but a directed series of daily workings towards accomplishing a single goal. Magick DOES work, and it works according to the rules.)
So here I am, making more than ever and doing, imo, less than ever, so I've got free time to surf the web. I'm meeting druids and ADF people, so I do a search on Isaac Bonewitz, and there's a page on his early experiences in Satanism. My supervisor comes over, sees that it's a pagan page, and immediately latches onto the word Satan. It took me a while to demonstrate the truth, and it's all cooled over now, but his initial reaction was the stereotypical non-pagan reaction you read about in Drawing Down the Moon and think doesn't happen anymore.
Maybe now with the media attention the neo-pagan movement has gotten made it easier for me to explain in this particular instance that no, I'm not a satanist, and no, I'm not any more wierd than the muslim down the hall who wears a dress and brings a prayer mat. Less so, in fact. But the experience was a real eye opener. There are people out there in positions of power and influence STILL laboring under the miscomprehensions and beliefs that made it a frightrening experience to "come out of the broom closet" for so many years. We aren't "safe." The bigotry remains. Lulling ourselves into believing that "they can't DO that anymore" doesn't make it true.
I used this opportunity to explain to at least one straight the difference between pagans and satanists. But it's not over yet. There's an article at witchvox today that covers a gathering in north carolina. One speaker invokes Ares at the end of her speech, and states that we are in a war. My first reaction was that she is starting a war, or continuing by evoking these energies. But that's not true. We're in a war of beliefs. A war in which we're fighting not for our lives, but for the right to believe as we will, raise our children as we will, and still have access to the fundamental liberties the straights share. We don't deserve to have our security and peace of mind threatened by out-dated bigotry.
It's true we're more accepted now than ever before. But there's still a long way to go. Don't think the war's over because we've won a few battles. The price of liberty is ETERNAL vigilance, if I'm not butchering the qupte too badly. Eternal Vigilance.
--Pope YHSVH ben ABRHM
| I Run A Small Home-based Candle Business. I Sell From Word Of... ||Sep 25th. at 11:31:41 am EDT|
|Morrigan (Indianapolis, Indiana US) ||Age: 31 - Email |
I run a small home-based candle business. I sell from word of mouth, festivals and out of the back of my car. I recently paid to be a vendor at a neighborhood Farmers Market, sponsored by the Garden Club. I was doing well until an older woman saw my pentacle, turned a nasty shade of pale and ran up to the coordinator. As expected, I got a call the next day telling me that the Parks Dept. said the glasses I use as containers was against the rules. I called the head cheese of the Parks Dept. and he was furious with the fact that they used his Dept. as a scapegoat. I gave him the coordinator's number and he chewed her a new one. I got another call from her a week later telling me that the garden club 'decided' that my 100% bees wax-organic essential oil scented candles weren't 'garden-y' enough and the only way I could sell them at the event was to put them in tacky flower pots...but She was watching my back...seems that it rained heavily everytime the event was held, and they didn't make any money. Karmatic revenge..ya gotta love it!
| As Someone Who Does Numerous Interviews I've Been Generally Pleased By The... ||Sep 25th. at 7:52:04 am EDT|
|Trish Telesco (western, New York US) ||Age: 40 - Email |
As someone who does numerous interviews I've been generally pleased by the change in attitudes I'm seeing. It's slow, but steady. However, some misconceptions and notes of surprise still appear. In particular:
1. Witches have ethics: some folk still view us a bit like the Hippies - a free for all, feel good click that's doomed to its own devices (surprise!)
2. WitchCraft has a religious element: there is still the misconception that Witchcraft is all methodology and no philosophy (this ties into #1). Also, learning that not all Witches are "wiccan" often comes as a surprise
3. Male witches are called witches! LOL - a lot of people still seem surprised that men are even involved in the craft.
4. Witches won't just tell people how to "curse" others: I always get these questions on the radio asking me to curse a co-worker and I staunchly refuse to share any information on the idea saying it's unethical (reinforcing #1).
5. Witches are the people next door (for our neighbors we ARE!) and few would even guess there's anything unique about us but for my natural gardening methods. We don't hang signs outside our homes saying "witch within" nor should we have to.
6. Witches do not try to undermine Christians or any religion. Somehow people still expect us to get out our book of Shadows and start brow beating people of other faiths. Meanwhile, our tolerance and encouragement of positive paths confounds.
Generally speaking I battle prejudice with humor. For example most of my interview requests come at Hallows to which I respond that I am a witch the other 364 days of the year too! When asked about brooms, I recommend hoovers (hey, more power!). When people laugh you can communicate far more to them effectively, and they begin to listen because you've disarmed the argument.
We won't change the world over night. I happens one person and one situation at a time. But with patience and on-going political activism it can happen. We just can't get lazy and let our rights be stomped by those who simply don't understand or refuse to see the truth. There will always be those who oppose us (sadly), and so we must find effective ways of showing prejudice for what it is.
| Misconceptions. We All Know They Are Out There And There Are So... ||Sep 25th. at 7:35:32 am EDT|
|Kim (Oakville, Ontario CA) ||Age: 18 - Email |
Misconceptions. We all know they are out there and there are so many of us trying to break the old untrue myths that sometimes you just want to scream. To call out to anyone that is within distance "No! I am not a satanist. No! I do not sacrifice children to any god, horned or not. No! I will not go quietely back into the night. No! I do not fly on a broomstick, I use American Air."
Unfortunately yelling wont get us very far for it seems the louder we yell sometimes the less people hear us. With all the media coverage that paganism has recieved as of late I almost forget sometimes that not everyone really knows what paganism is. Well, I was certainly shown that this past week when I was having lunch with a friend of mine. We are the only two people that have our lunch together so you can usually find us outside near the field relaxing in the end of the season sun. Josh is a great big sweetie and really easy to talk to. We got into a great religious discussion one day last week that kind of re-opened my eyes, as it were. No, remember, that everyone of my friends is aware that I am pagan so it came as a shock to me when Josh had said he hadn't known. Even more of a shock when he asked me "Oh, whats paganism". After I had picked my jaw up off the floor we started talking again. Josh is a very open minded person yet everything that left his mouth about witches was basically every bit of propaganda out there. He wasn't malicious or anything, he simply didn't know. So I explained to him about it, we talked so much we almost missed last period *woops!* and when I was talking about the burning times he looked absolutley horrified. I kinda felt bad about making him think about all that but it was a good conversation and it really opened his eyes to the possibilities. I wouldn't be surprised if the first thing he thinks of when someone says witch is the wort faced hag but at least now it wont be the last image he sees. Now, he'll see me too. *sans worts* And maybe one day, the wort women will completely vanish from his mind. That is something I look forward to. The day we are considered just like everyone else. I certainly enjoy being a unique individual but I'm still a normal person.
Now, not all experiences are that much fun. Some are downright unpleasant and some can even be dangerous. I've had people see my pentagram ring and ask me if it is a satanic symbol. I always answer truthfully. Nope, I say, and leave it at that if it seems that they are satisfied with that answer...which they usually aren't.
Some people dont want to talk to others about it and when asked about jewellry or something they said will run. Maybe because it is not safe to talk or because they are in the broomcloset still. I can't do that. I can't know that I have the means to change a bad preconception and not do anything about it. We cant just expect someone else to start changing the problem into a solution because if we do we will probably be waiting a very long time. We all need to do whatever we can to make this world safe for us, our friends, and our children *when I have some ;o}*
For those that lie about you and our religion. I say, call them on it. Lies like that cant really be backed up because they aren't true. Which isn't to say that someone wont believe it simply because it isn't true. People believe lies all the time. But it will probably help.
Ok.... I think that I have taken up enough room with my constant chirpings.
Sometimes I run on at the mouth a little, but at least I'm not silent. :o)
Be safe, and happy and be loved,
| We Still See So Often The Warty Big Nosed Old Hag Who... ||Sep 25th. at 1:12:35 am EDT|
|Helen Hodson (South Australia, South Australia AU) ||Age: 31 - Email |
We still see so often the warty big nosed old hag who eats children, or the slutty temptress leading men astray... or the devil worshipper playing with people's lives. There are more books and shows coming out though that contain more positive role models - try Mercedes Lackey - the Diana Tregarde investigations PI who is a witch, the new swathe of tv shows and even though they are fiction they are at least pagans as positive roles.
All we can do is show ourselves to be what we are and keep plugging away.
I am a 5'2" blonde with a snub nose (no super model figure though I am afraid!) and can only respond to the traditional image of well my nose is not hooked and warty is it? and we dont slaughter goats on friday nights cos we are busy dnacing naked on a hill top! humour defuses a lot of the situation when the answer is so ridiculous they often realise how silly there idea was too.
the hardest situation is the zealot, our daughter goes to a xian school (long story but the govt schools are not much use around here)and while the school is very understanding we have had the odd person who is convinced we are going to hell, that only jesus will save us...but I just stayed calm and said I don't believe in hell and I believe in a LOT of gods and goddesses and am comfortable in my beliefs as you are in yours, I think they may have thought about it as the next time I saw them they were aloof but have not mentioned it.
The real trouble starts if they cross the line but then there are legal paths to take.
Family is the hardest of all though, and I guess that while we dont want to lose them it comes down to the decision that is the price of losing your religion or keeping it hidden worth keeping the family? i have been lucky, my husband got curious and worried then I shoved books at him which he read and discovered he was a 'latent' pagan too! so we have a solid base in our house but the rest of the family has a hard time accepting it even though they are only xian as it is easy and acceptable to everyone else. I guess it is about being strong in your own beliefs and allowing everyone else to develop themselves - we can only change ourselves. the really ironic thought is that these same families that shun and pray for us etc etc would be fighting tooth and nail if we were in a religion or cult that forbid them contact with us!
so yeah the myths are still out there but they are changing so we are on the right track, it is going to be a long road though and we just have to keep at it. and yeah, with the zealots - be calm, be comfortable with yourself and realise that it is them feeling insecure not us. they preach acceptance and love but they need to show it, we can show it and lead by example.
in love and light
| Oh Gods..this Is Something That I've Been Going Through On A... ||Sep 25th. at 12:00:42 am EDT|
|Brigid (W-S, North Carolina US) ||Age: 25 |
Oh Gods..this is something that I've been going through on a continual basis as of late, even more so over the past week. I live in an area that isn't very tolerant where Pagans/Witches are concerned, and to be quite honest when you attempt to educate those who are misinformed, or respond to those who are "religious zealots", half of the time it doesn't do any good. I have found that those who are "religious zealots", no matter what you say to them, their minds were already made up in the beginning and they don't want to hear what you have to say. In their minds their way is the only right way, and everyone is is going to hell. People with closed minds are going to believe what they want to regardless of what you say, at least that's been the case with where I live lately.
As for changes over the years..I feel that there has been minor changes of a positive nature, but not to the extent to where I would feel totally secure in my area. (I live in the bible belt)
The world wide web...there are a slew of misconceptions and lies just floating around that are annoying.
For example there's the Classics : Witches sacrifice babies, and that we're evil, as well as the normal "Sam hain Lord of the Dead" etc. .
Then theres the more recent.. I read this the other day at a website. The article was about what Witches supposedly do. (The author claims that he's done exstensive reseach on all of the contents of his site) According to this web site, we all get naked, put on a rain coat and go to very tall buildings. From there we supposedly get in the elevator and proceed to go up as a way of raising energy. Supposedly all Witches do this according to this website. Gee...I wonder how many raincoats the author of this web site has ripped off people in elevators trying to expose them as Witches. This one you have to kindof laugh at. It's so ridiculous that it's funny.
There is one thing that really ticks me off more so than anything else though, the blatant lies that people will tell to children to put fear into them about Witches and any other topic that might be relevant. There have been times when my children have come in worried and frightened to inform me about what so and so said at school or in the neighborhood about Witches, and Halloween etc. We normally have to have another long discussion about what Witches do and don't do etc etc etc when that happens. Children are impressionable, espeacily children who are at the age that mine are. I just want my children to be tolerant, open-minded individuals now and when they become adults, and it's very frustrating when there are individuals attempting to go against what you've taught them.
I have attempted to educate those who are misinformed, and the others who are totally closed minded and blatantly bigoted that I have come across on the mundane , I have walked away from or steered clear of out of protection for my children and the well being of my household. Those types of people you really have to be careful of.
| For Me, This Penetrates Every Aspect Of My Life, Starting In My... ||Sep 24th. at 9:27:31 pm EDT|
|jana marsella (duluth) ||Age: 29 |
for me, this penetrates every aspect of my life, starting in my home. my husband tries to be understanding, but he'll get upset if i sit in front of my god and goddess altar, which is a window facing our very close neighbor's house. when he finally started asking me questions about it, he in all seriousness asked me if i am killing mice in the basement and drinking their blood! now, this really puzzled me and made me see how far propaganda has gone in the last 2000 years, since i am a vegan and an animal right activist!
my family still doesn't get it, and my mother in particular has really played the whole "i'll pray for you" card to death. she also seems to think that the idea of a holy trinity started with the roman catholic church. she apparently never heard of, for example, the three hindu pagan gods brahaman, vishnu and shiva.
i come from an interesting focal point on this, coz i once walked in the other guys' shoes myself (for a brief time). i would have to say that, in the overall area where i live, people still have some totally odd misconceptions about who it is we are and what it is we do and don't do. i sort of have to look back on my own perspective when i was so against us and find out why i felt that way. of course it's because there is a lot of propaganda out there that has extended from the roman catholicism and now reaches into the protestant community as well. ironically, i've found the most tolerant christians are the catholics. evangelicals (which is what my mom now is even tho she raised me lutheran) are the worst. they are so full of fear that they can't even see their own minds and hearts anymore. i truly don't fear these people as much as i pity them. as aradia once said, "they choose to have faith in place of understanding."
have the views changed over the years? well i have to say that when i was a fundie, i truly thought witches/pagans were freaks, but i never assumed they were devil worshippers. i studied some world religions in middle school and it was then that i formed the conclusion that satan was a christian mythos, coz it/he wasn't discuseed in any of the other religions we read about in class. and i never sought to hurt them. i just thought they were very strange.
i don't think things have changed that much. looking at it from the other side now, i see that people are more tolerant than i was eleven years ago, but they are not any more *accepting.* there's a difference between tolerance and acceptance. i tolerate the leaking in our bathroom due to the small hole that needs to be patched in our roof. meaning, i put up with it until we can get a roofer to patch it. i tolerate a long line at the check out at the grocery store. i don't tolerate other religions. i accept them for what they are. but i find that, no matter how accepting i am, i can expect only tolerance from these same people. they are willing to "put up" with me and my ideals, but acceptance? no. according to them, i'm not in a real religion, coz they're god is "the living god" and our many pagan gods are "dead" to them. oh, if they only knew and understood the truth that all of our gods are just as alive and kickin' as their one god! i think it would be a tad bit too much for their circuits and they might go on sensory overload! i wouldn't want to do that to them. it wouldn't be very loving. but oh! if i could only explain it to them. alas i can't because "they choose to have faith in place of understanding."
what can we do about religious zealouts? well i really don't know, outside of ignore them. of course, many of us being warriors by nature can counter-attack using lots of honey to neutralize their vinegar. i have found that the best way to win a battle waged at us by a religious-"righter" (in quotes coz they are of course *not* the only right way) is to be as kind and gentle as possible. that way they come off looking like the nutball and we come off as the humanitarians that we are. and i guarantee any on-looker is going to see that, note it, and pass the word on.
that's it. peace and nemaste all!
| Lol This One I Have Had Plenty Of Experience With! But Then... ||Sep 24th. at 9:19:03 pm EDT|
|NightTiger (Liverpool, New York US) ||Age: 16 - Email |
Lol this one I have had plenty of experience with! But then again who here hasn't? I still remember the first day I brought my book by Silver RavenWolf because we were going to be studing Witchcraft and the burning years. Even the teacher got an education! For the next few days it was question after question whenever someone found me! I got used to running to class to make it before I'd have to launch into another speech. Things calmed down a lot after about a week and people got used to it. Then I moved back to my hometown in Central New York and it started all over again. As usual I seem to have a knack for finding the people who are just starting out and finally wised up and made a public book of shadows for these ppl just starting. Full of references, principles of beliefs (as stated by the American Council of Witches), articles, and even personal notes; it's everything I wished I already had when I started out. So I let them copy what they wish and then I get it back update it and give it to the next person. This has cut down by a 1/4 the stuff I get from kids interested in starting to look at Paganism as a possiblity for their lives. Other people, I just laugh off or truely explain. If they're real jerks about it I shrug it off and keep going. If they think I'm going to burn in hell fine! But don't expect me to be very nice in return! Blessed Be all
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