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Don't Fear The Dark: A Discussion On Cursing
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I can imagine that the title of this article has already raised a few Wiccan eyebrows, so before I launch into the discussion proper, let me say this to them: Don't worry. I'm not flaming you. I'm not going to ridicule your beliefs, and to do so would be hypocritical, as I myself devoted several years of my life to Wicca. It's a good, sound, well-structured system, with a wonderful sense of community and empowerment.
So don't panic.
If you want to follow the Wiccan Rede, great! It's an admirable ethic. But it's not for me anymore. Yes, I have cursed, yes, I do curse, yes, I will probably curse again. But don't run away just yet; hear me out, and bear what I'm saying in mind.
In Neopaganism, there has been something of a shying away from the 'dark side' of spirituality; there is a great emphasis on being 'nice', on focusing only on the 'good' and 'light' side of things. Yet in comparison, our ancestors before us cursed each other like there was no tomorrow. To this day, archaeological digs uncover smashed clay portraits, bottles of punctured animal organs and other such wonderfully wicked hexes (just type 'curse' into the Boscastle Museum Of Witchcraft's database search and you'll soon see what I mean) . If you mention these items to a Neopagan, they'll be likely to change the subject sharpish, or blame it on the witch hunters of old.
Everywhere you look, the Law of Threefold Return is drilled into you, as well as other such warnings and cautions about the 'dangers' of cursing. Terms such as 'white' and 'black' magick don't exactly help. But is cursing as horrid and malicious an act as it is made out to be? Do we have to sacrifice this art completely to be spiritually 'good'?
As a Wiccan, I always found that the Wiccan Rede was a hard act to follow; the Rede stated that, as a Wiccan, I could not harm anyone, in any circumstance, ever. The questions that came to me were these; what if they harmed me first? Doesn't that entitle me to some kind of counter? Moreover, what if they deserved it? Then again, who's to decide?
If we look at Western Heathenism as a whole, there is very little evidence that an idea like the Law of Threefold Return existed before the 1950's, and it is in fact derived from Eastern spiritualism. Traditional Cornish Witchcraft, perhaps the only Traditional form that has truly thrived in the British Isles, makes great use of cursing.
Have any of these witches, or any of our ancestors, been made to pay for their actions?
Historically, only by the witch hunters. There are no reports that I know of relating to Traditional Witches being punished by the Gods for cursing in itself. Of course that's not to say that cursing doesn't require a certain degree of caution- indeed all spellcraft does.
My partner, for example, performed a curse on a group of people that had refused to act when his friend was date-raped at her own birthday party; he consequently suffered from minor blackouts for months afterwards. This, you might say, is proof enough of celestial punishment. However I propose a slightly different view.
Keep in mind that anger and hatred are incredibly violent emotions; they could be argued to be more 'powerful' than happiness and calm due to their speed, severity, and unpredictability. Compare how exhausted you are after laughing for five minutes, and after shouting and screaming in rage for the same amount of time. You would probably agree that the latter leaves you feeling much more empty and drained. Also think of the amount of times you've flown off the handle for trivial things. This is what makes cursing so risky: the power behind these negative emotions, and their tendency to amplify far beyond what is fitting to their cause.
Basically, if you wish death on someone for stealing your car, the Gods probably will turn around and admonish you for being harsh. On the other hand, if someone hurts your family and you want payback, the anger and hate you unleash in that spell will burst out of you far more readily than a healing spell. In all cursing, then, moderation of your emotions and a good deal of consideration beforehand are key; I believe that my partner's blackouts occurred because he either wore himself out completely from the spell's severity, or the Gods deemed him too severe and made him pay accordingly- but they weren't admonishing him for cursing in itself.
In particular, the idea of your family being hurt is one that does not sit well with the Rede. What if someone did willingly hurt your family? Would you sit and wait for the Gods to avenge you?
This view is one that I imagine the Gods find slightly arrogant; they're not there to hold your hand, and they don't heal your friends for you- you have to do most of that yourself, even if you do ask for help, so why isn't cursing the same?
Or, would you turn the other cheek, letting the instigator get away with their cruelty?
Now I've never been the most forgiving person, and I don't see why I can't give back what I get from people who wish to hurt me and mine. The trick is to cast a curse that is equivalent to the harm done; something that is very hard to do when the human condition makes us bloodthirsty for revenge of the worst kind.
I would definitely say that cursing is harder than well-wishing, as it requires more control; it also requires you to make contact with a part of yourself that you may not like. This I think is why many Wiccans and Neopagans turn away from it, to the point of fearing it; they refuse to accept the ugly side of their nature, as do most people. This is understandable, but it's also an imbalanced way of life to me; it's a sad truth that the world is both beautiful and terrible, and I believe that true balance comes if your spirituality reflects that.
Curses are nothing to fear (unless you're on the receiving end of course!) , and they can be quite trivial; I performed a curse on a flea infestation in my house a few months ago, with the help of Tiw, and I haven't had trouble since.
All in all, pins in poppets and mutilated animal organs are extreme examples of what is, really, just another form of spellcraft; if you look past the hype and fight your fear, you'll find that curses aren't as terrible as they're made out to be. Remember that the more severe curses are a last resort; like everything else, you must think twice and use caution.
And like all spells, curses are just a means to an end, usually getting rid of something undesirable when there's no other way of doing so.
Of course I can't convince you to agree, and if you're still dead against cursing, so be it; you're welcome to your views. But at least consider what I've said, and try not to be afraid of something that is, at its heart, an integral part of the Traditional Craft.
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