Your browser does not support script
TWV Presents...

Articles/Essays From Pagans

[Show all]

Views: 19,501,004

December 10th. 2016 ...

A Child's First Yule

November 10th. 2016 ...

What Exactly Is Witchcraft?

A Witch in the Bible Belt: Questions are Opportunities

On Death and Passing: Compassion Burnout in Healers and Shamans

What I Get from Cooking (And How itís Part of My Path)

October 10th. 2016 ...

Witchcraft from the Outside

September 11th. 2016 ...

How Did I Get Here? (My Pagan Journey)

Wild Mountain Woman: Landscape Goddess

September 3rd. 2016 ...

Rethinking Heaven: What Happens When We Die?

What is Happening in My Psychic Reading?

Natureís Reward

August 12th. 2016 ...

When Reality Rattles your Idea of the Perfect Witch

Past Midnight

Hungarian Belief in Fairies

Designing a Pagan Last Will and Testament

July 13th. 2016 ...

What Every Pagan Should Know About Curses

Magic With A Flick of my Finger

An Open Mind and Heart

Finding and Caring for Your Frame Drum

June 13th. 2016 ...

Pollyanna Propaganda: The Distressing Trend of Victim-Blaming in Spirituality

Living a Magickal Life with Fibromyalgia

My Father, My First God

Life is Awesome... and the Flu

May 15th. 2016 ...

Wiccan Spirituality

Faery Guided Journey

How to Bond with the Elements through Magick

Magical Household Cleaning

Working with the Elements

April 2nd. 2016 ...

An Alternative Conception of Divine Reciprocity

Becoming Wiccan: What I Never Expected

The Fear of Witchcraft

Rebirth By Fire: A Love Letter to Mama Maui and Lady Pele

Blowing Bubbles with the Goddess

Magic in Sentences

The Evolution of Thought Forms

March 28th. 2016 ...

Revisiting The Spiral

Still Practicing

Lateral Transcendence: Toward Greater Compassion

Spring Has Sprung!

January 22nd. 2016 ...

Coming Out of the Broom Closet

Energy and Karma

Community and Perception

December 20th. 2015 ...

Introduction to Tarot For the Novice

Magia y Wicca

October 24th. 2015 ...

Facing Your Demons: The Shadow Self

The Dream Eater--A Practical Use of Summoning Talismans

Native American Spirituality Myopia

A Dream Message

Feeling the Pulse of Autumn

October 16th. 2015 ...

Sacred Lands, Sacred Hearts

September 30th. 2015 ...

The Other-Side

September 16th. 2015 ...

Vegan or Vegetarian? The Ethical Debate

Nature Worship: or Seeing the Trees for the Ents

August 6th. 2015 ...

Lost - A Pagan Parent's Tale

July 9th. 2015 ...

Love Spells: The Good, The Bad, and the Ugly

The Magic of Weather

June 7th. 2015 ...

A Pagan Altar

A Minority of a Minority of a Minority

The Consort: Silent Partner or Hidden in Plain Sight?

Why I Bother With Ritual: Poetry and Eikonic Atheism

May 6th. 2015 ...

Gods, Myth, and Ritual in Naturalistic Paganism

I Claim Cronehood

13 Keys: The Crown of Kether

March 29th. 2015 ...

A Thread in the Tapestry of Witchcraft

March 28th. 2015 ...

On Wiccan Magick, Theurgy, Thaumaturgy and Setting Expectations

March 1st. 2015 ...

Choosing to Write a Shadow Book

Historiolae: The Spell Within the Story

February 1st. 2015 ...

Seeker Advice From a Coven Leader

The Three Centers of Paganism

Magick is No Illusion

The Ancient Use of God/Goddess Surnames

The Gods of My Heart

January 1st. 2015 ...

The Six Most Valuable Lessons I've Learned on My Path as a Witch

Manipulation of the Concept of Witchcraft

Publicly Other: Witchcraft in the Suburbs

Pagans All Around Us

Broomstick to the Emerald City

October 20th. 2014 ...

Thoughts on Conjuring Spirits

A Microcosmic View of Ma'at

October 5th. 2014 ...

The History of the Sacred Circle

NOTE: For a complete list of articles related to this chapter... Visit the Main Index FOR this section.

Article Specs

Article ID: 10663

VoxAcct: 252520

Section: words

Age Group: Adult

Days Up: 3,899

Times Read: 6,287

RSS Views: 72,992
The Discipline Of Wicca

Author: Church of the Blessed Moon
Posted: April 9th. 2006
Times Viewed: 6,287

I recently attended a function at the local university. As I was visiting with an old friend, I was approached by a young woman, who recognized me from a past local Pagan event that I had organized. This happens to me with an amount of regularity, as I organize many local Pagan events. However, as I am busy during these events with the organizational aspect and not the social aspect, I tend to get noticed but not have time to notice others. So before me is a young Pagan, seeking answers for her new spiritual quest. She assumes that I am the go to woman, and she begins to ask questions:

ďSo, the Wiccan Rede. It means I can do whatever I want right? And, I joined this online coven. Yeah, we do rituals in a chat room. Anyway, I was wondering, is it OK to hex my boss? I mean, it would be for the greater good. If I come to your coven, can you help me develop my powers? If you like, I can show you some really awesome spells. Oh, but I canít come to your coven this week, because Iím going to a kegger the night before and I donít think Iíll be sober. Is it true that at Beltane I can have as much sex as I want?Ē

The questions are true enough, although they didnít all come in one sitting. It took several conversations with this young woman to get her to be honest about her goals in being a Pagan. Essentially, her goals boiled down to sex, drugs, and a spiritual get out of jail free card.

Unfortunately, she is not alone. I frequently run across Pagans who have jumped into the Pagan boat for the spiritual get out of jail free card. Iíll refer to it as the SGJFC. In conjunction with the SGJFC there is also the issue, which this young woman presented, of fast food Wicca. Fast food Wicca is also known by theology buffs as post enlightenment ideology. Basically, what we have are people who experience Wicca only through email/books and not through human contact, or people who experience Wicca only once or twice a year (Beltane and Samhain), or people who only experience Wicca when it is convenient. By convenient I mean weddings, funerals, or when there is a problem to which said alleged Wiccan is seeking a magickal solution. It would appear that fast food Wicca is a direct result of the popularization of Wicca in mainstream society.

Christianity has the same problem, except for them it is Easter and Christmas, weddings and funerals, and TV evangelism. Fast food religion is an insult to any religion, as it provides practitioners with the false hope of the SGJFC.

What many new Wiccans do not realize, is that our faith goes beyond books, chat rooms, and poems like the Wiccan Rede. It is an experience. It is an experience that cannot truly be placed into words, or emails, or gathered twice a year. It is an experience that affects the way you view the world, which we are a part of if we choose to acknowledge it.

That being said, what does it take to know this experience we call Goddess and God? In a word, discipline. It takes discipline to try to cross the veil between worlds over and over again until you can accomplish it. It takes discipline to read and listen to the words of our elders, especially when their words are not what you want to hear. There has been many a time where I have steamed over advice or information, which I did not choose to accept at the moment, from someone who had already been where I was.

It takes discipline to go to meetings with your coven or study group, and not give up because someone irritates you in the group. Believe me, there will always be someone who may irritate you. But in order to continue your work with the group, you have to be disciplined and patient in order to work through your differences.

It takes discipline to care for your body, and nurture your mind. Many of us have experienced traumatic events in our lives. In order for us to be better able to work magick, work with a group of other people, and generally function as healthy human beings, many of us seek counseling or seek to heal ourselves through various resources. The bottom line is, to take on an inner quest for spirituality one has to begin to work through the other issues inside oneself. I would say that for me, itís not always about experiencing total peace of mind, but working to make my mind more peaceful. As for the body, remember that your mind is attached to it and reaps the benefits of good care. No matter what is said about mind over matter, an ill-cared-for body cannot be meditated away. Itís all about respect, and learning to love you. You have to love yourself because no one else can do a better job than you can.

When I was a professional counselor, I always heard my clientís say, ďWell, I tried to be good. But then I messed up, so I figured all was lost and I quit trying to be good.Ē In Wicca, we do not ask for your perfection. The Goddess/God do not demand perfection, or sacrifice, or for you to deny that you have desires. What is reasonable though is to understand that what we do has effects. Those effects may not be what we want. If you get an undesired effect, itís OK because it is normal and it is human. The trick is to have restraint, discipline, and good decision making skills. That way when an action has an unwanted effect, you can make a conscience decision to do something different.

Another aspect to discipline and respecting oneself in Wicca, is knowing when to ask for help. As we are a part of a greater whole, and are not separated in this world, reaching out for assistance when appropriate is like reaching out to another part of the Goddess/God. To respect oneself in Wicca is to know when you cannot handle the burden alone.

Iím sure that the ideas of discipline, effort, outreach, good decision making, spirituality, and responsibility for the self/community, are not ideas that would float well with the young woman I mentioned earlier. But she didnít want Wicca. She wanted a SGJFC with her fries and milk shake. Wicca is no free ride. Wicca is not glamorous. Wicca is not found in a book or chat room. It is about knowing the Goddess and God, and taking a journey that will ask you to think about the way you live your life.

Copyright: Kendra R. Reece, February 25, 2006


Church of the Blessed Moon

Location: Dallas, Texas


Other Articles: Church of the Blessed Moon has posted 7 additional articles- View them?

Other Listings: To view ALL of my listings: Click HERE

Email Church of the Blessed Moon... (Yes! I have opted to receive invites to Pagan events, groups, and commercial sales)

To send a private message to Church of the Blessed Moon ...

Pagan Essays

Pagan Web
8,000 Links

Pagan Groups
Local Covens etc.

80,000 Profiles

Home - TWV Logos - Email US - Privacy
News and Information

Chapters: Pagan/Heathen Basics - Pagan BOOKS - Traditions, Paths & Religions - Popular Pagan Holidays - TV & Movies - Cats of the Craft - Festival Reviews - Festival Tips - White Pages (Resources) - Issues/Concerns - West Memphis 3 - Witch Hunts - Pagan Protection Tips - Healing Planet Earth

Your Voices: Adult Essays - Young Pagan Essays - Pagan Perspectives (On Hold) - WitchWars: Fire in the Craft - Gay Pagan - Pagan Parenting - Military - Pagan Passages

Pagan Music: Pagan Musicians - Bardic Circle at WitchVox - Free Music from TWV

Vox Central: About TWV - Wren: Words, Wrants and Wramblings - Guest Rants - Past Surveys - A Quest for Unity

Weekly Updates: Click HERE for an index of our weekly updates for the past 6 years

W.O.T.W. - World-Wide Networking

Your Town: A Link to YOUR Area Page (The largest listing of Witches, Pagans, Heathens and Wiccans on the Planet)

VoxLinks: The Pagan Web: 8,000 Listings

Your Witchvox Account: Log in Now - Create New Account - Request New Password - Log in Problems

Personal Listings: Pagan Clergy in Your Town - Adult Pagans - Young Pagans - Military Pagans

Events: Circles, Gatherings, Workshops & Festivals

Covens/Groups/Orgs: Local Groups Main Page

Other LOCAL Resources: Local Shops - Regional Sites - Local Notices - Global/National Notices - Local Skills & Services - Local Egroups - Political Freedom Fighters

Pagan Shopping: Online Shops Index - Original Crafters Sites - Auction Sites - Pagan Wholesalers - Pagan Local Shops

Web Site Content (including: text - graphics - html - look & feel)
Copyright 1997-2016 The Witches' Voice Inc. All rights reserved
Note: Authors & Artists retain the copyright for their work(s) on this website.
Unauthorized reproduction without prior permission is a violation of copyright laws.

Website structure, evolution and php coding by Fritz Jung on a Macintosh G5.

Any and all personal political opinions expressed in the public listing sections (including, but not restricted to, personals, events, groups, shops, Wren’s Nest, etc.) are solely those of the author(s) and do not reflect the opinion of The Witches’ Voice, Inc. TWV is a nonprofit, nonpartisan educational organization.

Sponsorship: Visit the Witches' Voice Sponsor Page for info on how you
can help support this Community Resource. Donations ARE Tax Deductible.
The Witches' Voice carries a 501(c)(3) certificate and a Federal Tax ID.

Mail Us: The Witches' Voice Inc., P.O. Box 341018, Tampa, Florida 33694-1018 U.S.A.
Witches, Pagans
of The World

Search Articles

 Current Topic
 Editorial Guide

NOTE: The essay on this page contains the writings and opinions of the listed author(s) and is not necessarily shared or endorsed by the Witches' Voice inc.

The Witches' Voice does not verify or attest to the historical accuracy contained in the content of this essay.

All WitchVox essays contain a valid email address, feel free to send your comments, thoughts or concerns directly to the listed author(s).