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Paganism is one of the most spiritual and free ways of life that I have ever experienced. But everyone grows and changes within their belief structure as they mature and age. I converted specifically to Wicca years ago and allowed myself to get caught up in the motions. Wicca is a wonderful religion, but like all faiths, those who practice it can misinterpret it. Following the wheel of the year is a very empowering way to celebrate life, death, and the Gods, but if one allows oneself to get caught up in one way of celebrating only, it can be less emotional.
Every faith has rituals and holidays that are celebrated in different ways but many people get so caught up in the ascetics and the material that they often donít enjoy the meaning of the celebration. Many of us witness this when Christians make their holy day of Christmas all about presents, and decorations. Of course, an altar faces a certain direction for specific needs and there are a number of oils, stones, and spells that work best during specific times, it just seems that a lot of us try to follow so many rules and specifics that we lose sight of the whole point: connecting with the Gods and the elements that they gave us. Yes, organization helps large groups of people to practice a faith together, but thatís what sets Pagans apart. We donít need a hundred other people celebrating with us to feel that our faith is validated, and often times the most spiritual otherworldly connections are made in smaller more intimate groups. I specifically no longer consider myself only a Wiccan, but I am and always will be a Pagan.
All religions seem to put a label on someone, and once you let it be known what your faith is, it seems as if everyone has an opinion. Thatís why so many of us donít openly share our religion. And it is my belief that my relationship with nature and the Gods along with their elements is no oneís business but my own. Unfortunately, I have oftentimes been forced to reveal my beliefs when faced with bigotry, ignorance, and angry individuals. And it is often helpful to talk to others who are dealing with the same issues.
The boundaries and rules set into religion bind us to a degree; Paganism is so much more spiritual and allows one to explore their knowledge of the world while still holding onto a faith. The wheel of the year is very dear to me, but I no longer devotedly rush to set everything up perfectly. I oftentimes donít even create a circle because spell work is not something I take lightly therefore I donít often perform any kinds of spells. I trust enough in the Gods that they will protect my rites and often feel them pulling me when it is important to intervene with a spell.
Some will say that Iím not a true witch then, but do we really have to cater to stereotypes and allow our faith to be defined by spell work and secret rituals? I think not. My mother, for example, is still very much a Christian but she is more than welcome to celebrate Yule and Ostara or any of our other holidays. I myself believe that Jesus existed and that he did a great many things. He was a healer, could manipulate the elements, and accepted others for who they were; he sounds more Pagan to me than anyone. Do I believe that he was the only son of a male GodĒ Well, no! We are all the sons and daughters of the Gods. The point is, that within each religion, the boundaries that we set up to close ourselves off from other beliefs only limits us.
Do I wish that more people could understand the beauty and power of nature? Absolutely! I have spent years creating a lifestyle with my husband that allows us to live at one with nature while still being able to fit into society, something that is growing harder and harder nowadays. Many of our friends and family see us as Ďthe crazy peopleí because we share a car and donít own a dishwasher or a microwave. I make nearly everything from scratch. My husband and I share a cheap cell phone. We spend more time outside than in whenever possible and we donít often run our air condition or heating. We allow our daughter to get dirty and play with bugs. We have more space in our backyard than in our cute little house. We have a compost heap and recycle nearly everything. If I find a bug inside the house, I release it outside. My husband and I pay extra for organic and cage free food because we understand that our meat comes from something that once lived and we believe that even animals that are killed to be eaten should live a happy life until itís time for them to serve a greater purpose, and the list goes on. But are these really that extreme?
Once upon a time the majority of the worldís people worshipped nature and we lived at one with it. People did rituals yes, but they werenít rushing from here to there so they could get to church on time or set a spell up just right to change something in their lives. Wiccan or Pagan, Christian or Atheist, Buddhist or Hindu, Jewish or Muslim, there is a more spiritual side to each belief that breaks through the rules and bounds of every faith to bring us back together so we can live in peace with nature.
Sure Iím biased; I believe that Pagans are much more accepting of other faiths because I have lived it. Iíve never met a Pagan who goes door-to-door trying to convert people or who puts up billboards and commercials about their faith. That seems petty and unrealistic to us because the people who allow a billboard to tell them what faith to choose are just a likely to bow down to lord Taco Bell someday.
All joking aside, even witches cater to stereotypes sometimes and we have to make a conscious effort to remember that our faith is so personal that every Pagan has their own take on the Gods and our deep connections with nature. Rules only limit us. Once I started creating my own spells and rituals, I found a greater sense of understanding and a much easier way to connect with people of other faiths. When asked about my religion, I now tell others that I am a spiritual Pagan.
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