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Article ID: 2527
Age Group: Adult
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Author: Arwen Lynch
Posted: October 3rd. 1999
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Gotcha! Now you know there is no $19.95 wayof being a Witch, don't you? Sit down; take a breath...now that you havefound something you want you want it yesterday! I understand. I can rememberwhen I started. I remember that sense of urgency I got. That "I have toget there right now" I have to be just like Z. Budapest, Starhawk, Margo!I wanted to meet them. I wanted to talk to them yesterday! But most ofall and worst of all, I wanted to be them. Put pushing the river isn'tgoing to get you there any faster. And where is there anyway?
Seventeen years down the road now and I cansay to you that you will NEVER be a Z a Starhawk a Margot a Silver Ravenwolf, a D.J. Conway, a Scott Cunningham. Oh no, you can't be them. You can onlybe you. And that you is going to be a beautiful thing!
So I was 20 and I finally knew what I wantedto be when I grew up, but no one could give me enough information. I wasneither as fortunate nor as cursed as you are in today's world of a dozenbooks per subject. Fortunate because you can go into almost any Barnesand Noble, Waldenbooks, or even Amazon.com and just pick up a book. Doyou have any idea how hard that was in 1981? Finding a copy of ZsuzsannaBudapest's The Holy Book of Women's Mysteries, pt 1 was an experience.I was living in Louisiana at the time and a friend had introduced me toStarhawk's The Spiral Dance. I was hooked. I am also a bibliography reader.If an author I like mentions a book, then I want to get my hands on thatbook and see what it is about!
But you are cursed as well because thereis so much witchcrap out there. So many people who have written books thatare a total waste of paper. But the books that I think are a waste of papermay be the ones that speak best to you. That is a clue, my new Witch friend.Never let me or anyone else tell you that a book is useless. Learn to readfor yourself and think critically while you read. Does the author makesense or is there a nagging feeling you have that this person is a completeflake? If there is, then do yourself a favor and research the subject.You don't think that author woke up one morning and knew everything therewas to know about their subject do you? Patricia Telesco, one of my favoriteauthors, has a page on her website that tells new authors to plan for 800hours per book. And that 800 hours includes research as part of it! Soif Ms. Telesco must research, why shouldn't you?
The web has wonderful places for that kindof research, but don't forget your local library! Find authors you admire.Then try to discover why you like them. Is it because they have writtenbooks period? Or is it in the way that they deliver their information?Dorothy Morrison has a style that I adore! She is personable and approachablein her books as well as accurate and knowledgeable. Or you might preferFrancesca De Grandis style that has the feel of teacher walking with herstudent and talking.
And don't just read websites! A website ownercan be someone with less knowledge than you but has the ability and know-howto scan books and copy things wholesale without credit. Don't be takenin. Go to your local library (you remember, that large brick building onthe corner?) and check out books on anthropology, archaeology, history, etc. Learn where our roots come from. And please, don't let someone tellyou Wicca is an ages-old religion! It is not. It is a new religion. I liketo say Wicca is a new dress on a very old set of bones. We do have someancient roots, but the branches we have today are new. But you have tolearn to let the urgency not rule you. Do read everything you can get yourhands on. Read "Witch" books. Read all the books! But don't forget to takeyour salt cellar with you.
Huh? Arwen? What the heck are you talkingabout and what is a salt cellar?
Your Salt Cellar is that thing you carrysalt in so you will always have a grain of salt to take things with. Don'taccept something simply because it is published in a book or on the web.Learn to believe in yourself. Learn to listen to your inner voice. Theone telling you that maybe what you just read is a load of manure ...ormaybe it is saying that there is a pearl in that load of manure. Trustin the reality of self. I can't stress this enough. If you will give yourselfthe tools of knowledge and discernment, then you can begin to hear thetruth in things as well as the lies and mistakes. Do listen to what otherssay about books, but don't take their word for it. Figure it out for yourself.
The sense of urgency you feel now may makeyou too intent on getting there. But, here is the question. Where is there?Are you so focused on your race to the finish that you are not enjoyingthe journey? Be too intent on getting there wherever there is and not intentupon enjoying the journey and the journey will pass you by! I don't knowif this message will reach you, but I am 38 (b. 1961). I began my journeyon the path to Wicca in 1981 (or 2). That was 17 years ago. I am stillon the journey of getting there. I will always be on that journey. Learnto enjoy the Trip. There is no there. When you get there, you will havereached the end and that means starting again.
Once you learn that the journey is the meansand the end, then you realize how much more you have to learn.
I wish you good fortune on your travels.A part of me wishes I was at the beginning again, but most of me is quitecontent to be where I am. I am still experiencing new thoughts, new thingsand new people on a daily basis. Remember to enjoy the trip. Oh, and don'tforget to send a postcard from some of those exotic places you visit.
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Bio: Arwen Nightstar lives in Griffin, GA with 1 husband, 2 dogs, 5 cats, and 1 cockatoo. She has been on this journey since 1981. She has been previously published in Circle Network News. She was dedicated to the Old Ways in 1985 in Toledo, Ohio where she was a loving member of Children of the Laughing Greenwood. Arwen maintains that networking is the key and is teasingly called the netwitch queen among her friends.She maintains Stir the Cauldron and Arwen'sStone Gallery as well as designs sites for a hobby. You can find her on several email lists including the two she runs which are Magic, Lust and Mirth and the Pagan Table. Both of these can be located at Onelist. She has hosted Member Chats for Sixdegrees also. She is outspoken for a Pisces, but her Scorpio moon and Aquarius Rising with Aquarius Mercury make up for that fishy quiet.
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