Is There a Right Time to Curse?
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First off, I want to get something straight that even pagans seem to misunderstand. Or have been misguided into believing. (Not all, mind you, but most.) Hexes are NOT curses! Hexes are painted signs posted on barns down in the south to promote positive influences over the property and those that live there.
Curses are quite different. From the Wikipedia (on-line dictionary) the definition is: A curse (also called execration) is any expressed wish that some form of adversity or misfortune will befall or attach to some other entity—one or more persons, a place, or an object. In particular, "curse" may refer to a wish that harm or hurt will be inflicted by any supernatural power, such as a spell, a prayer, an imprecation, an execration, magic, witchcraft, a god, a natural force, or a spirit. In many belief systems, the curse itself (or accompanying ritual) is considered to have some causative force in the result.
They claim that a curse holds no power unless the recipient believes in it. I don't believe that's necessarily true. A curse has merit no matter what. It's a solid form of magick just as a spell is. It has its purpose and has a place. They exist for a reason and if used correctly, they can be a force of nature to be reckoned with.
There are a few pagans who have called a dark deity as their matron/patron. Kali, The Morrigan, Calliach, Hecate, Badb, Skatha, Nemisis, Morgana, Innana and Lilith, Hades, Anubis, Setesh, Hoder, just to name a few.
What's the difference with calling one of these dark deities and a curse? There are many forms of magic to use in calling forth the dark deities, but all in all, the dark deities are: Dark. You wouldn't call on Kali or The Morrigan to cast a love spell. They are more for revenge and war than love and laughter.
In the beginning I would never have even thought about cursing any one. For any reason whatsoever. Many years later, my logic has changed.
I feel that there is a time to curse and a time to use another approach. If harm befell upon your loved one, for example if he/she was raped, shot, or killed, (these being the more serious offenses) , I can agree that a curse is more of an appropriate form of magick than to send that person 'peace and love'. The damage has been done and is irrevocable so in my opinion, a curse is warranted and justifiable. Surrounding yourself with protection and that loved one (whether living or not) is always a positive take, but you would want to see that person get the justice he/she deserves. Right? You wouldn't want that person to be able to harm other folk, right? You'd do every thing with in your capable means (with in the law) to get what they deserve.
So why not a curse?
I understand that Wiccans, the traditional ones, wouldn't condone such a notion because of the three-fold law. But, as I stated beforehand, the damage HAS been done, so there is no further harm. Every thing in life has a good and bad side to it, just as it does in magick. No matter what we do in magick, we are taking something from some one else. That extra energy we use to cast a spell could be used for some one fighting a serious illness. In the air we breathe, we are taking that air from some one else. We use a candle to focus. We use that source of light from some one that may need it during a power outage or in a third world country that has no power what so ever. The list could go on and on. It's a nice rule, but it's an oxy moron. It doesn't fit. Not technically.
Of course I would never agree to a curse just because I didn't like some one. The damage that would warrant a curse from me would have to be severe.
Curses have a long history. It dates back to ancient Egyptian times. Probably dates back to the cave men, but for theory's use, I will stick to then.
In Haiti, curses are called getting "crossed". In Voodoo it's called a jinx as well as a form of foot track magic. The "evil eye" is thought to stem from the Middle Eastern and the Mediterranean areas.
In Greece they are called katadesmoi and in Rome, tabulae defixiones. In Ireland there are many known forms of curses such as curse stones or egg curses, New Year curses and milk curses. Chinese peoples have them. The Indonesians, the Indians (not with the feather!) the Europeans, the Brits and the Scottish people have curses in their history. Even Native Americans.
The Native American people of the southern plains called these types of witches Skin Walkers. Skin Walkers where as nasty as one witch or wizard could possible get with the use of black magick. These beings are supposed to be able to extract revenge upon the help less victim by placing an animal skin over their human bodies and thus shape shifting into the form of that animal. While in the guise of the animal they choose, they can wreck havoc upon the poor soul they choose to victimize.
Even in the bible there are curses hidden within. God himself placed a curse upon the snake "You are cursed more than all cattle", (Genesis 3:14) . As a result of Adam and Eve disobeying God, the ground is also cursed: "Cursed is the ground for your sake; in toil you shall eat of it all the days of your life." (3:17) . Cain is cursed from the earth, "So now you are cursed from the earth", (4:11) . In the New Testament Paul sees curses as central to the meaning of Jesus’ crucifixion. In Galatians 3:13 he says: "Christ redeems us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us...". He refers to Deuteronomy: " anyone who is hung on a tree is under God's curse." (21:23 RAEDM)
So if even God himself used them, they are credited aren't they? Why can't we use them if the damage has been done?
I wish the world were all frilly and white. But, it's not. There are lines of grey that border on crossing over to black; there are lines of grey that border on crossing over to the lines of white. That's the way life works. It's the way Nature lives and the way humans are bred. Nature is neither cruel nor loving, it just is. And magick is the same, in my book.
Again, if the damage has been done, why can't a curse be warranted?
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